Can You Really Bring Your Man's Best Friend Into a Threesome?
Threesomes work, and sometimes threesomes don’t work. It’s really the nature of the threesome. Now, we’ve covered threesomes already, but there are so many options to be found within the great world of threesomes that we just had to revisit the topic. If you’re finding that you want to have a threesome with your man’s best friend in the mix, chances are good that danger signs might be appearing in your head. Indeed, there’s a lot of risk involved with bringing your man’s best friend into a threesome. It’s something that could even ruin your relationship if you don’t have a solid foundation that your ‘ship sits on.
Yes, you read that right — you have to be in a trusting relationship to get your threesome fun on, especially if you’re bringing in people that you have a very close connection to. The last thing that you really want to do is end up getting so attached that your little threesome morphs into something that isn’t quite sex, nor isn’t a relationship either.
Does that mean that the players within a threesome don’t care about each other? That’s not necessarily true. However, everyone knows the boundaries that exist within a threesome, and they don’t do anything that would force them to step over that line. You would do well to remember such things, and to act accordingly.
So, where does that really leave us in the great scheme of things? You don’t want to end up not being able to really take care of your desire to be in a threesome, but you don’t want to ruin your relationship…what do you really do?
The answer is clear: you need to talk. However, don’t just make the mistake of talking only to your boyfriend. You will need to talk to the man that you want to invite into your bedroom, and you need to make that a conversation that also includes your boyfriend. This is something that some guys will not be into, and you have to think about your risk vs. reward. Yes, it’s possible that just mentioning a threesome will make your boyfriend mad. Yes, it’s possible that your man’s best friend doesn’t even want to sleep with you. However, if you’re willing to take the chance that they do want to sleep with you, there’s always an opportunity to test the waters and find out.
Safety and good sex do go hand in hand, and when you’re talking about threesomes it’s really important to make sure that you are using protection at all times. Sure, not everyone in porn land follows this advice, but that’s porn — it’s on the big screen and it doesn’t affect you. This affects you. You do not want to get caught with a sexually transmitted disease simply because you had a penchant for raw sex, right?
The same rules about regular sex apply to threesomes of this nature as well. You want your man to feel pleasure, but you also want to make sure that you’re taking care of the new man in bed too. If your partner is completely okay with you fulfilling one of your fantasies, then feel free to live it up. Don’t be afraid to break out the hot clothes, sex toys, or anything else that’s going to get you in the mood.
You need to use your feelings to guide you through this. If something doesn’t feel right, speak up. Just because there’s someone else involved doesn’t meant hat you should feel like you have to be uncomfortable just to make one or both of the men happy. If you need to slow things down, then you need to say so. At first, you might feel that you’re ruining the mood. But men aren’t stupid — they can tell if you’re enjoying it or not. You will upset both men in bed if you bottle up how you really feel, or try to pretend like you’re having the time of your life when you’re really more uncomfortable than anyone could ever imagine. It’s just a matter of trying to see what you really want.
Overall, you have to look at the pros and cons of bringing your man’s best friend into your threesome. Even if your man is game for a threesome, it doesn’t meant hat he wants his best friend to be inside of you or engaging in other sexual acts with you. Some men are into threesomes, but only if they involve bringing in a 2nd female, not a 2nd man. Hey, we never said that human sexual relationships made sense.
Take your time with this and don’t rush, but overall you should have a good time — check it out, when you’re ready!
