Do Top Notch Vacation Getaways Really Lead to More Sex?

Travel is something that we all want to do, and having sex is something that most of us want to do. So, the theory goes that if you combine the two things together you will get an experience beyond your wildest imagination. After all, this is the same principle behind most of your big movies, isn’t it? Two people travel to an amazing island paradise, only to find that they really can’t keep their hands off each other. Sure, they can’t show you all of the steamy sex parts on the silver screen, but they give you enough hints where you realize that your on-screen couple is definitely up to no good behind closed doors.

There’s something about travel that has always captured our attention. No one can really put a finger on why we expect things to be amazing just because we’re in a different location, but we do.

So that leaves the natural question: do amazing destinations always lead to amazing sex? That’s a question that’s up for debate, but here are a few thoughts that might get you moving in the right direction.

First and foremost, you should only take a vacation if you know that you can afford it. The last thing that you will want to do is take a vacation when you are struggling to make the bills meet. Stress isn’t sexy, and if your partner knows that you’re only taking this vacation because you want better sex, they could take it the wrong way. It’s better to sit down and make sure that one, you are communicating openly with your partner about the desire to take a vacation, and two, you have to think about how the vacation will affect the two of you on the whole. It’s one thing to want a vacation, but does that line up with the other goals that the two of you have? When you get with someone else, you have to make sure that you’re acknowledging their goals as important as well.

That said, there are some benefits with getting away form the stress and challenges of everyday life. You might find that taking time away from cell phones and other distractions can give you time to really explore each other. Yes, that means that you will have to focus on each other instead of trying to compete with the porno videos for a change, but this might just be the thing that your relationship is looking for.

Of course, it cuts both ways — if you’re always focused on the touchy-feely stuff at home, you might feel free to explore the wild sex that you’ve always wanted on vacation — leading back to the question that we’re trying to answer all along.

If you really want to build a great vacation that will enhance your sex life, you should focus on doing things that both of you enjoy. The sensual side of a vacation could include a long walk on the beach, or tracing each other’s bodies in the sand if you’re still into the beach thing. It could even be a couple’s massage, which will definitely get your blood racing. It’s better to make sure that you are doing things as a couple. While it’s true that one person could always run and do their own thing, it’s just better to handle things as a couple.

Do you have to break the bank in order to make that work? Definitely not — you can actually get a lot done on a small budget, thanks to the rise of the Internet. It’s important to make sure that you start looking at vacation deals as early as possible. Travel is something that everyone wants to do, so the demand for the same hotels and other attractions gets very high. You shouldn’t have to feel pressured to make any snap decisions — there are always last minute travel deals, especially if you only want to get away for a weekend.

One of the questions that you will need to answer for yourself and your partner is where to go on vacation> There’s nothing wrong with staying close to home, but what about when you really want to go all out? You should both make a list of places you wouldn’t mind going to, and then put them into a hat. From there, you can pull out one or two or even three choices at random — the one that fits your schedule and budget is the one you should go with.

Don’t forget to make sure that you have all of your papers in order in order — passports, visas, travel insurance, proof of return passage on an airplane or other transportation mechanism…all of that might be necessary depending on where you go. No one wants to find out that a vacation is ruined before it’s even begun because you didn’t have the right documentation.

So, what do you even do when you get to your travel destination? Well, there are quite a few things that you can do when you’re on vacation — you will just need to sit and really think about what you and your partner have been dying to do. It’s not all about the sex. In fact, the less you focus on the sex, the more likely it is that you will actually have great sex. Why? Well, in a nutshell it’s all about being comfortable and being in your own element. When you put too much pressure on yourself to perform in bed, you end up being unable to really do anything except lay there and wish that you were doing better. On the other hand, when you approach the topic of sex on vacation with love, respect, and happiness & gratitude, there’s no limit to the great sex that you can have.

Keep in mind that vacation sex doesn’t mean that you get to throw out the rules that define your relationship. For example, you might be under the impression that you can leave the birth control measures at home just because the sun is high, the ocean water is nice, and the people at your travel destination are friendly. This is an assumption that you might not want to make. If you asked many parents how they got their children, chances would be good that many of them would say that their children were conceived…on vacation! Now, there’s nothing wrong with kids at all, but if you aren’t ready for children yet, you might want to make sure that you pack the condoms and/or any other birth control methods of your choice.

Overall, there is a lot to think about when you’re trying to plan a sexy vacation, but don’t worry — you can definitely do it! Get started today — and don’t forget to keep it sexy!