Does Size Really Matter - A Different Answer to the Ultimate Question

Size matters…or does it? Even though we’re a sex-friendly, sex-positive guide book, that doesn’t meant that we don’t tackle some of the classic questions every once in a while. A lot of people write in to weigh in on the subject, and the tough part is that everyone is entitled to their opinion.

Of course, if you’re a man trying to wade through the waters to find someone to keep things exciting between the sheets, you might wonder what the other side is thinking on the subject.

on the other side of things sit women that aren’t sure whether or not that size is everything that it’s cracked up to be. After all, how many times have you wanted to get with a man simply because he’s got a large penis, only to find that he’s not very satisfying in bed? This type of letdown is one of the biggest reasons why the debate still rages on about whether or not size is a good thing.

So let’s add our two cents to the mix, shall we?

In a nutshell, size is what you make of it. In our opinion, the world is far too obsessed with size to really make any solid decisions either way. For every man that is well endowed and knows how to use it in bed, there’s a man that just can’t seem to really make fireworks in bed. For every woman that is determined to have the largest penis that she can find, there’s a woman that simply accepts a man at any size he comes through the door with.

Does size directly relate to pleasure in bed? We really don’t think so — it’s all about the way things go in bed. You need communication, partnership, openness, passion, and the desire to have fun. Those things matter no matter what type of penis size you’re working with. There’s no reason to feel like a man has to be a certain size if he doesn’t end up that way — you could be cheating yourself out of the best sex of your life, and then how will you feel?

Another point that you have to keep in mind is that the size question can be expanded outward in bed as well. A lot of women think nothing of judging a man based on what he has in his pants, but what about the man that looks only at a woman’s chest size? That’s equally puzzling, considering that we all ought to be happy just getting to get our hands on bare skin!

So, while you have the size debate with your friends and lovers, just think on this — it’s really all what you put into the equation of sex that determines what you get out of it. If you stop and focus on being the best lover that you can instead of thinking about what size someone is, you shouldn’t have any trouble keeping your sheets sizzling for a long time to come!