Going Bare - 3 Steps to Getting Your Pubic Hair Shaved

Let’s get naked! Ok, if you’re sitting at home right now, then you can follow that statement to the letter if you wanted. However, if you’re reading this out in public, you might want to make sure that you keep your clothes on. Sorry, just keeping it real.

Now that we’ve completely busted your bubble, let’s get back to some sex advice, shall we? One of the first questions we ever tackled was the subject of pubic hair, and how to shave it off. Now, at first glance this seems like this would be just a woman’s problem, but there are actually many men that also are curious about shaving off their pubic hair. Let’s get real here for a moment: shaving off your pubic hair doesn’t automatically assign you a certain sexuality. You’re not going to suddenly become a gay man simply because you want to trim or even shave off your pubic hair completely. Men who shave regularly actually report that it’s given them a lot more confidence in bed because their genitals are fully exposed, which can be very sexy.

This is the same reaction that a lot of women have — while their partners have always enjoyed sex with them, they experienced a huge upswing in desire once they shaved off their pubic hair. Does this mean that you will need to get your pubic hair shaved in order to have wild, off the rails sex? No, but it’s definitely a bonus!

So, if you want to shave off your pubic hair, there are really three things that you will want to make sure that you keep in mind.

First and foremost, you will want to think carefully about who will do the shaving. If you’re really trying to get the closest shave possible, you might want to have your partner do it. It’s not like it’ll be the hardest thing that you’ve ever done — there are certainly harder things in life than shaving your partner down. You just need to make sure that you approach the subject gently from every angle. You should not only take your time with the shaving, but you will also want to make sure that you apply the right level of moisturizer as well as smoothing lotion. You have to try to do everything you can to prevent ingrown hairs, which can be very painful. If you rush through the process of shaving, you will cause ingrown hairs to run rampant.

From there, you actually need to follow through with the actual shaving. Don’t try to make it too clinical — keep it sexy and you should be okay. If you’re not sure how to keep it sexy while you’re shaving, why knot set up some background music to get started? You don’t have to try to go through the motions all on your own, you know — you can always ask your partner for their opinion. This gives you the perfect opportunity to work the shaving into a fantasy that they’ve always wanted. For a man, perhaps he’s always wanted a sexy nurse to touch him in naughty places — you could work the shaving into that. For a woman, she might want a hot lover to sweep her off her feet and lovingly shave away the curly hairs of her pubic mound. It’s really a matter of figuring out what your partner’s fantasies are, and fulfilling them.

OK – so the steps got all tangled up, but that’s just the way sex goes — it’s often a tangle, never straight, yet always interesting!